IfYourLove'sOneLeavesYou..

Yesterday night, I was trying so hard to occupy myself from other business rather than did as what I wrote in status – Assignment-ing. I’ve been “loitering” in FB and came across this page which pop out from nowhere.

♥ GIGI ♥ 永远的 KEN ♥ - http://www.facebook.com/pages/-GIGI-yong-yuan-de-KEN-/105788389464649

At first I thought it is just someone trying to propose to his girlfriend which I’ve seen the similar one in FB. But as i scan through, I just felt something is wrong. “老公，因为你的离去，大家都很重视我们的感情，还上了杂志呢！！”

It is just not something happy! With the curiosity and tendency to procrastinate my work, I started to stalk her stuffs. So I get to know this girl, got this relationship with the guy named Ken, who passed away by end of April2010 due to a car accident. Then she started to create this page, and writing everything about them in the blog.

But somehow I personally feel she’s a little bit extreme. They way she expresses her feelings, her loves, and her grieve over her boyfriend’s death. I saw some harsh comments in her chatbox, bout her-over-react-blog+page, bout she sound more like trying to popularise herself than expressing her grief, but also some show their supports to her. I should say I’m neutral =p

What makes me feel awkward is that, their relationship not even reach half a year while the guy passed away, and they only 18/19. Does that have to be this extreme? I should not criticise, because the fact that it is really killing to have your love one leaves, plus it is just so SUDDENLY. And maybe they really have strong bond, time don’t measure the depth of love I guess. I just feel weird as I found out more and more.

Then I am wondering myself, *touchwood* what if this happen to me? Will I be more extreme compared to her? I guess somehow it is just too terrifying to even imagine it. We shall really appreciate anyone we have around us.